There are certain area in our life na hindi natin kaya pang i-give up or let’s say we are not proud of. Each one of us always have skeletal in our closet it depends on you how you will define it, good or bad, tama or mali, no one really has the right to judge or condemn one another.
Paano nga ba tayo muling babangon?
How do we start a new beginning?
Where should we start?
If this will matter to you, I hope it does, every new beginning starts within YOU.
Ikaw mismo dapat gusto mong baguhin ang hindi maganda sa’yo or ang cycle ng buhay mo at ang mga paulit-uli na issue na binabato sayo.
Hindi titigil ang lahat ng nararamdaman mo kung mismong ikaw ayaw mong tumigil. Mahirap naman talaga magbago pero kung gugustuhin madali lang.
Actually, we really do not need to change. What we need is to look for better version of ourselves so it will overflow to the people around us.
When you finally decided to end a relationship, did you or do you ever thought of it? the pros and cons of it?
When you want to jump off the cliff, did you plan or strategically plan of how you will jump?
When you wanted to commit in a relationship, inisip mo bang mabuti na hindi lang sarili mo ang kailangan mong i-commit kasama na dito ang oras at panahon mo, handa ka ba?
Nowadays, we are so into instant! lahat na lang ng bagay dapat instant at mabilis, we loss the patience, the drive of pursuing a better plan, the patience of the victory, most of all the beauty of patiently waiting.
Gusto natin mabilis mag-move on, mabilis makalimot, mabilis magpatawad, lahat mabilis, mamadali ka? sinusundo ka na ba ni San Pedro o kaya naman ni Kamatayan? Bakit ka ba nagmamadali? Saan ba ang punta mo? sa Mars? Teka, sandali lang. Pause lang. Stop muna.
Ang lahat ng tagumpay may kaakibat na lungkot, pighati at pagkatalo dahil doon tayo natuto. Hindi ‘yong tutulog ka lang eh pag gising mo mayaman ka na. Work hard on your dreams.
Kung puro saya ang mararanasan mo, do you think you will ever learn? Kung hindi ka natalo, nabaseted, nasaktan, tingin mo you will become stronger? Usually, yan ang pinanghuhugutan natin ng lakas para magsimula muli. We go back to start not because we lose but because we wanted to TRY IT AGAIN! Yes, again hanggang sa matibay ka na at kaya mo na. You are your own super hero.
Pain and Love goes together.
Happy and Sad goes along.
Negative and Positive attract each other.
Do you get my point? gets mo ba ako?
Our differences makes us all together. Para tayong isang malaking puzzle na pinagtagpo-tagpo ng tadhana. Isa tayong obra na unti-unting binubuo.
It may be dark days today but we will never see the light if we block the sunlight wanted to shine in our life.
Do not block the blessings that God has given you. Sabi nga ng BFF kong bipolar, Huwag mong ireject ang mga positive na dala ng tao na gusto kang mahalin at ayaw kang bitiwan. tama sya dun!
Isaiah 60:10 Arise, Shine; for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord has risen upon you.
Kung nahihirapan ka ngayon sa stay home, locked down at self quarantine, isipin mo you saved life for abiding the law. You saved yourself and others too! oh di ba?
Kung iniwan ka ng jowa mo ngayon kasi bored na sya at hindi kayo makapag-date eh hayaan mo na, babalik yan kapag tapos na ang locked down, pusta ako dyan ng mga bente! hahaha.
At kung bored ka ngayon dahil sa stay home huwag mo naman paglaruan ang feelings ng mga taong marurupok. Nagkalat ang mga marurupok ngayon kasi wala ibang magawa sa bahay. Natapos na lahat ng episodes ng TV series. Kating-kati na silang lumayas sa bahay at bumukadkad ang mga pakpak para rumampa. so please, handle it with care, the fragile heart.
At para sa mga matitibay ang loob sa quarantine natin, ang sanay na sa loob ng apat na sulok ng bahay, mga tropa kong sanay na sa social distancing, this is our time to shine! spread the ways and strategies to be happy in our little ways. Do something despite of the situation.
Pray for those who are mourning.
Pray for the soul who passed away.
Pray for the people who fights to live.
Pray for those health care workers who choose to serve other people other than their families and children.
And after this pandemic, we are all facing the new beginning.
The beginning of our life, healthier.
The beginning of our life without the people we love.
The beginning of something new.
The beginning does not mean something has ended but a brand new chance that we are able to live one more in this borrowed world. Celebrate the life of those people we loss along the way. Our hearts are grieving but one way or another,believe me or not, they are happy seeing you living your life. It is not forgetting them, this is about continuing what both of you started. Do not give up on the dreams you built around them. Do not stop loving. Do not stop living.
Let’s make use of this one more chance of improving.
Let us make this world a better place to live in.
Keep Going, the best has yet to come. We can get all through this.
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