Paano ba mag-let go?

Did you ever meet a newly person in your life and instantly become each others life support?

Did you ever watched a movie and you become so obssesed with the character and hard of saying it’s over?

Have you ever felt loving someone and they not know how’d you feel about them?

Did you lost someone? Something?

Don’t worry, I feel you.

GOT fans? Anyone here? Marvel fans? Yes, I am both. The two TV and Movie series I am attached with after One Tree Hill. When my fan girling started it is so hard to stop, pakiramdam mo parte ka ng movie na ginagawa nila at member ka ng group nila. Weird ko ba? Thank you, that’s me!

Movie – 5 feet apart. A story of two teenagers with medical condition and has a tragic way of saying goodbye! (Don’t worry, I won’t spoil it here! Highly recommended movie!). Letting go was hard and they exactly make it harder for me. I cried a river all throughout the movie.

And I have a friend I met not long ago, who has been instantly part of my life. She has to go and stay with her Mother, in Philippines. I am currently based in Middle East for 7years now.

Naramdaman mo na ba ako? Ang hirap mapalagay ang loob mo sa mga bagay at taong nakapaligid sa’yo becase the chances are you have to set them free. At masakit nun you don’t have the control of the situation.

So paano ba mag-let go ng hindi nasasaktan? Possible ba ‘yon? Maglelet go ka nga di ba? Syempre masakit!

Yes, masakit! Lalo na kung mahal, minahal at minamahal mo. Kailan ba hindi naging masakit ang mag-let go?

When we lost someone in our life we grieve, masakit kasi di ba?

When our favorite things got broken masakit rin di ba? Favorite mo kasi ‘yon.

But if we will focus only on the pain, it will be painful.

Change your focus, Besh! Huwag mo hayaan lunurin ka ng sakit at pighati ng mga tao at bagay na kailangan na talagang ilet go.

Mga feelings na kinukubli mo ng matagal na panahon na ikaw lang nakakaalam, let go mo na! Unload that so you will be free. Hindi para sa kanya, para sayo!

Mga sakit na matagal mo ng kinimkim, let it go! Huwag mo ng paramihin pa ang sama ng loob mo dahil lulubog ka lang!

Letting Go does not mean pain and not loving someone or a thing, it means you are matured enough to face the battle of life on your own because you have a God with you.

Mahirap sa umpisa, Besh. May emotional attachment ka na eh. Hindi rin biro ang lahat ng pinagdaanan mo kasama sila. Hindi rin maexplain ang nararamdaman mong saya kapag napapanuod mo sila. Iba-iba naman kasi tayo ng trip sa buhay, survival of the fetest, ika nga!

But here’s a friendly reminder:

Psalm 46:10 Be still. Let Go and Let God.

In this journey, we called life. We cannot go on if we focus only on the pain. Change your focus, always look at the brighter side of life. Isipin mo ang ikakabuti ng situation sayo at sa taong mahal mo.

Be Selfless and letting go will become lesser of a pain. Oh, lesser pain ah? Hindi totally no pain! Robot ka nun kung wala kang sakit na maramdaman.

Walang makakapagsabi sa’yo ng exact way to let go pero kung handa ka naman tanggapin, mag-adjust at maging masaya kahit walang kapalit, letting go will be so much easier.

Our life on earth is temporary, a borrowed life, might as well, Live and Love life.

Keep Going, God is with you. Trust his process.

I am going to support you on this!

Lika, Sabay tayo mag-let go?

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