In Love?

Ang sarap sa pakiramdam di ba kapag may taong alam mong mahal ka.

Pakiramdam na I can do everything because the love you gave fuels me.

Naalala mo pa ba ang unang araw na nakilala mo sya?

Paano ba sya ngumiti sayo?

Paano sya nagpakilala? Nagpa-cute?

At kahit hindi kagwapuhan/kagandahan ang Jowa mo, makakapatay ka kapag may lumandi sa kanya. Sasagupain mo kahit sino! Para kang red bull, ang bumangga, GIBA!

Oh, ngiting-ngiti ka dahil naalala mo kung gaano kayo ka sweet sa isa’t isa.

Inaalala mo rin ba ang unang away-bati moments nyo?

Kung paano mo sya sinuyo at nagmakaawang huwag kayo maghiwalay, dahil ikamamatay mo? Oh eh buhay ka pa naman di ba? ūüėÄ

Masaya di ba? Ang daming kilig-hanggang-gilagid-moments ang pinagsamahan nyo all through the years of being together.

So anong nangyari?

Bakit parang sumusuko ka na?

How long the two of you been together? 3months? 6months? 1 year? 3 years? 10 years? more years? kaya nag-sawa ka na? You fall out of love?

Or hindi kaya? ituloy ko pa ba naiisip ko? hindi kaya may gusto ka ng iba?

You see, Ano ba ang ibig sabihin sa’yo ng love? Saan mo ba natutunan ang salitang ‘yan?

Sino ba ang inspirasyon mo sa pagmamahal?

Based on my research at sabi ni Beshie Collins Dictionary it is¬†noun an intense feeling of deep affection. FEELING BESH! FEELINGS.¬†So gets ko kung bakit nag-tantantrums ka, feelings change and by the way, it’s constant.

Let us look for another definition of love:

1 Corinthians¬† 13:4-7¬†says Love is patient,¬†love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ¬†It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,¬†it is not easily angered,¬†it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil¬†but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

Gets mo na ba kung anong point ko? The love you know can affect the relationship you have. It can also be one of the reason is, the love you brought up to. Paano ba ang relasyon mo sa magulang mo? sa mga kapatid mo? 

Ano bang klaseng pagmamahal ang pinaramdam at pinakita sa’yo ng mga taong nakapaligid sa’yo?

Does it always gave you pain? heart ache? stress? if it does, I bet you acquire that kind of love too. One piece of unsolicited advise,¬†YOU CAN CHANGE THE LOVE YOU KNOW.¬†Huwag mo ng ipasa pa ‘yan sa magiging anak mo, apo mo at kapu-apohan mo. Naniniwala ako na kaya mo. Kaya mong magbago.¬†Hindi ka masama, mali lang ang pagmamahal na alam mo.¬†Kaya nga di ba kapag mali, tinatama? Don’t make it hard.¬†Open minded ka naman di ba? Tara! Let’s change the world!

Does it makes you patient? more loving? more understanding? then you overflow that love to your partner as well.¬†CONTINUE DOING IT!¬†We need more like you in this world!¬†Keep it up!¬†I’m backing you up.

Hey, may iba’t ibang klase ng relasyon, okay?¬†That will be discussed in other days, not today!¬† ūüėĬ†

Is it worth it? kaya pa ba? lalaban pa ba?

If your answer is¬†YES!¬†go and love them more. Seek God’s help, Let him be the center of your relationship. And when it doubt –¬†PRAY TOGETHER!¬†God will use people as his instrument to enlighten your relationship and to have it long lasting! Walang forever pero may ETERNITY.

But if your answer is¬†NO!¬†go and talk to them,¬†personally! Straight from the heart.¬†Give them the honest truth than pleasing lies¬†so they will not doubt themselves and be bitter about the relationship the two of you have. Mas okay maghiwalay ng walang sama ng loob kahit masakit. Mas okay magpakatotoo sa nararamdaman kesa manloko. Don’t prolong the agony.¬†Both of you need peace of mind and a calm heart.

Lalaban o Susuko? Stay or Go? 

Kung ano pa man ang maging decision mo, sana hindi mo pagsisihan. There’s no turning back. So make up your mind, kneel and pray. Seek his guidance,his wisdom, his help to make a decision.¬†

I will pray for you too! 

 

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